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Jay Payleitner

Author. Speaker. Creative Director.
JKPayleitner & Associates
Country or state 
United States (Illinois)
Available to 
North America,
Europe,
...
City 
Saint Charles
Fee 
Languages 
English
Volunteer
Yes

Personal Details

Bio

After completely failing as a sales rep for office machines and law books, Jay found a sweet niche on Michigan Avenue writing ads for airlines, beer, and other big name clients. (Including helping to name "SunChips" for Frito-Lay.)

After a decade or so, God's clear call led him to a freelance career scripting and producing thousands of radio broadcasts for Chuck Colson, Josh McDowell, fathers.com, Heritage Foundation, Salvation Army, Voice of the Martyrs, and other nonprofits.

As he approached 50, Jay reinvented himself again as a national speaker and best-selling author of more than 30 books including The Prayer of Agur, 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad, The Newlywed Year, and What If God Wrote Your Bucket List?

Jay’s books have been translated into ten languages and sold more than a half-million copies. He has been a guest multiple times on The Harvest Show, Moody Radio, Cornerstone TV, and Focus on the Family.

As a speaker—in more than 20 states and 3 countries—Jay has keynoted Iron Sharpens Iron and fundraising events, preached at weekend services, and led dozens of men’s retreats, women’s outreach events, and marriage conferences.

Jay served as Executive Director of Illinois Fatherhood Initiative and is co-founder of Benevolent ThinkTank.

Jay and his high school sweetheart, Rita, live in St. Charles, Illinois where they raised five awesome kids, loved on ten foster babies, and are cherishing grandparenthood.

Current position (2)

Author. Speaker. Creative Director.

JKPayleitner & Associates

Co-Founder

Benevolent ThinkTank

Degrees (1)
BFA
Illinois Wesleyan University
1975 to 1979

Presentations

Presentations (9)
Your Next Big Thing

Jay tells his own roller-coaster story so you can see how God uses all our life experiences and has already prepared you for YOUR next success story. “Who will you be one year from today?”

What If God Wrote Your Bucket List? (based on Jay’s book)

Typical bucket list items—bungee jumping, swimming with dolphins, seeing the Eiffel Tower—are meaningless compared to what God has planned for you. Maybe it’s time to pour out your old bucket . . . and live full!

26 Things Kids Need from a Dad (based on Jay’s book)

Laugh through true stories with lots of user-friendly takeaways. Jay never bashes dads. After all, God designed fatherhood to be a blessing and a blast. Includes video clips of classic movies.

What Your Wife Needs from You (for men, based on Jay’s book)

Put her needs first and you both win! That’s not being a wimp. That’s servant leadership. Fall on the grenade. Push her buttons. Kiss in the kitchen. Make her beautiful. Be a hero.

Your Husband Has Secrets (for women, based on Jay’s book)

Men have secrets women need to know. We actually like to cuddle. We have flaws and want your help. We need you to chase your dreams. We don’t need sex every night. Plus, learn the four words that capture our heart.

Hooray for Grandparents (based on Jay's book)

Fresh strategies for giving love, feeling loved, and leaving a legacy. Pull out old photo albums. Buy a step stool. Pass on family recipes. Make stilts. Be a video chat rockstar. Ask keen questions. Say YES…but not always. Vacation with a purpose. Be a blessing—not a burden—to your grandchildren’s parents. (You may even become the favorite grandparent!)

The Jesus Dare (based on Jay’s book)

It’s a question that cannot be ignored: “What If Jesus Is Who He Says He Is?” This winsome, but vital talk is for anyone on the fence or who wants to have more confidence sharing their faith. At the end of the talk--like the end of the book--the audience is challenged to "take the dare."

Silver-Lining Conflict (based on Jay's book, Don’t Take the Bait to Escalate)

Resolve conflict. Win negotiations. Love your enemy. Change your world. Learn the Four Factors you must not overlook and the Three Mistakes you must not make. Plus, sneaky tactics and tricks!

Find Your Sweet Spot (based on Jay’s book, The Prayer of Agur)

A quirky, obscure character named Agur wrote one chapter in the
Bible and gave us the only prayer in all of Proverbs: “Give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.” (Proverbs 30:8) Are you seeking balance? Contentment? Purpose? Find it with Jay and Agur.

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Expertise (11)

Family & Parenting
Media & Marketing
Fatherhood Marriage Your Bucket List Christian Parenting Conflict resolution Life Balance foster parenting Teaching Creativity The Publishing Industry

Clients

National Center for Fathering
Iron Sharpens Iron
National Coalition of Ministries to Men
Guideposts
Voice of the Martyrs
Prison Fellowship
Josh McDowell Ministry
The Bible League
Museum of the Bible
The Heritage Foundation
Harvest House
Multnomah
DaySpring
Tyndale House
Chronicle Books
Simon & Schuster
Midway Airlines
Frito-Lay
Kroger
Salvation Army
Recommendations
Why choose me? 

Takeaways are guaranteed. Beyond the laughter are lightbulb moments your audience will put to use.

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