Skip to main content
  • Conferences
  • Speakers
  • Skillcamp
Notifications
  • Strategies for Online and Offline Success
    ×
  • That Will Get You Speaking Engagements in 2024
    ×
  • For a Meeting or Talk
    ×
  • SpeakerHub's commitment to innovation and user-centric design.
    ×
  • How to Make Your Public Speech Professional and Memorable
    ×
  • SIGN UP
  • SIGN IN
  1. Home
  2. Find a speaker
  3. Rhoberta Shaler
Rhoberta Shaler's picture

Rhoberta Shaler

PhD
Founder
For Relationship Help
Country or state 
United States
Available to 
Europe,
North America
City 
San Diego, CA
Fee 
Languages 
English
Volunteer
No

Personal Details

Bio

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. She also helps the partners, exes, adult children, and co-workers of the relentlessly difficult people she calls "Hijackals™ to stop the crazy-making. Even the US Marines have called upon her for help!

Dr. Shaler’s mission is to help folks stop tolerating verbal and emotional abuse. She works with clients globally through video conferencing, as well as her speaking, writing, video, and podcasts, The Relationship Help Show: Handling Hijackal Havoc.”

Working with people struggling with life, death, and relationship for over thirty years in Canada and the United States, Dr. Shaler has brought hope, comfort, strength, and success to countless people who honestly believed it was impossible. She offers the insights and pattern-breaking skills that lead to blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships.

Author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler currently focuses on adding to her Hijackal series. The latest, Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth About Hijackals & Why They Are Crazy-Making was released in 2016. Kaizen For Couples™: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship is the summary of a lifetime of insights developed from working with real people confronting the real life challenges of living and loving together. It offers workable solutions to twenty-first century relationship issues and a new proven model for living the loving relationship you most want.

Dr. Shaler’s work has been featured on FoxNews, PsychCentral, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, The Good Men Project, eHarmony, Care2, Greatist, Pulse, and The Needs, among many others. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp.com, is an evergreen source of practical insights and tips for relationships. Her newsletter, Tips for Relationships, and her radio show, The Relationship Help Show: Handling Hijackal Havoc provide valuable strategies weekly.

Current position (3)

Founder

For Relationship Help

Member

Evolutionary Business Council

Founder

Optimize Life Now, LLC

Degrees (1)
M.Ed, Curriculum Development, Educational Psychology
University of Victoria
1975 to 1978
  • All (1)
  • Videos
  • Photos (1)
This speaker hasn't uploaded any videos yet.
This speaker hasn't uploaded any slides yet.
This speaker hasn't uploaded any one sheet yet.
This speaker hasn't uploaded any press information yet.

Books & Articles (3)

Are You Being Heard?
3 Ways To Mismanage Conflict - Are you using these?
How To Leave Effective Voice Mails

Expertise (8)

Health & Well-being
Relationship Conflict and Anger Management Communication personality disorders Mediation Building effective teams Negotiations

Awards & certifications (1)

Outstanding Business Woman of Southern California
2004

Reviews

Testimonials (1)
  • I have worked with a number of professional and self-development coaches over my 30-year career, and Rhoberta stands out as one of the best. In the course of two one-hour sessions following my Core Values Profile, Rhoberta gave me new insights and practical techniques to successfully resolve a specific conflict at work. What really excites me is how well the techniques...
    Chris Allen
    Helping clients create and sustain digital experiences
    Verified
Recommendations
Dr. Ganz Ferrance's picture
Dr. Ganz
Ferrance
Speaker/Author/Coach
AskDrGanz.com
Teresa de Grosbois's picture
Teresa
de Grosbois
Chair
Evolutionary Business Council
Tina Dietz's picture
Tina
Dietz
CEO
Twin Flames Studios
4 Audience
Show More
Why choose me? 

I help people stop tolerating verbal and emotional abuse, and create healthier relationships.

Affiliations
Evolutionary Business Council
Similar to Rhoberta
  • Lianne Lyne MSc, ACC, MBPsS's picture
    Lianne
    Lyne MSc, ACC, MBPsS
    Founder
    PLP Coaching, LLC
  • Ashish Gupta's picture
    Ashish
    Gupta
    AVP, Corporate Business Development - Data Science
    Jigsaw Academy
  • Kathy Knowles's picture
    Kathy
    Knowles
    Intuitive Strategies
  • Jeffrey Williams's picture
    Jeffrey
    Williams
    Professional Trainer
    Excellence Edge International
  • Yakima E. Marks's picture
    Yakima E.
    Marks
    Executive Director
    ReCode LLC
  • Speakers
  • Agencies
  • Events
  • How it works
  • Blog
  • Upgrade
  • Podcast
  • About us
  • Organizers
  • Terms of use
  • Privacy policy
  • FAQ
  • API
  • Contact
  • Corporate Speakers Bureau & CRM
  • Motivational speakers
  • Leadership speakers
  • Business speakers
  • Inspirational speakers
  • Keynote speakers
  • Corporate speakers
  • Celebrity speakers
  • Top 50 Business Speakers
  • Top 50 Leadership Speakers
  • Top 50 Motivational Speakers
  • Top 50 Technology Speakers

Get speaking tips & so much more!

Twice a month we send you speaking tips, training ideas and lots of useful updates.

© 2026 SpeakerHub
All rights reserved.

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • SoundCloud