Fiona Eckersley

Confidence, which is really the belief in yourself, is the key to moving positively forward in any area of your life. We are conditioned to feel guilty when thoughts about putting your needs first pop up into your head. As we get older the very essence of "you" somehow becomes unimportant. Then life changes in some way. -The kids get older, and need you less. Your career seems to be less of a passion, or you’re left behind and unsure how to fix it.Many of us don’t notice that slow boil that somehow erodes our self worth and confidence, yet feel the effects and know something isn't right.
Discover that you can take control of both your work and social life.
Understand that you have the talents and ability to move yourself to financial stability.
Learn quick, daily tricks to boost confidence before a meeting or similar triggering event.
Believe that you have the power to eliminate the stress and and anxiety that keeps you awake at night.

We are all coming at life and our view of others from the filter of our own experiences. From this "box" we find ourselves in, it can be very difficult to fully understand what others are trying to say. We want those close to us, in whatever context, to GET what we want and what we want them to do or be. Letting go of that need to control others and understanding, that the only control is over ourselves can lead to better communication where we try to actually listen, step aside from our own point of view and understand what is really being said by another.

Understand that you control only yourself
View others as having their own unique set of circumstances which will influence their communications
Learn to let go of judgement and replace it with an effort to understand and compromise
Discover how to communicate in a more thoughtful and productive manner.